There are some that disagree with our way of raising our children and some that totally understand, but the bottom line is we love our children like nothing else. Unconditionally. Equally and will ALWAYS be here for them, without a doubt. We didn't get an instruction book but boy, we sure could have used one, ha! We have learned from other's failures and provided our share of teachings to those that watch us.
We have taught our older ones to be independent and strong, encouraging them to spread their wings. Reach for the stars and dream. We never said it would be easy, never said they wouldn't fail at something. In fact, we want them to deal with life's realities and sometimes tough times so they can learn how to stand back up. They have witnessed disagreements under our roof but also seen us work through anything that was bounced this way. We have cheered them on from the sidelines; baseball, football, basketball, cheerleading, dance. We have ensured they have medical and dental attention, making our share of trips to the emergency room. We have photographed milestones and celebrated birthdays year after year. Education is a must. No dropping out of school, don't accept failing grades, they must work hard. There has always been food on the table, clothes in the closets and even a brand new back pack when school started each year. Our door has always been open. Friends? Sure thing. In fact there have been times that we didn't know who was under our roof; but it was always ok (until I backed into one of the cars parked illegally behind my garage door, lol) We've had our share of financial ups and downs throughout the years but basic needs have always been met. Luckily it doesn't cost anything to provide love and care. What has always been easy to do is make that special dessert or side dish for an outing, be the homeroom Mom who bakes the cupcakes, go on field trips around the county or out of state. We can share stories of their childhood (and even teenage years) and dig out tons of videos and pictures that we have accumulated over the years. These two are grown and living a life of their own; surviving, making the best of what they have and striving to succeed, independently. Sometimes days go by without even talking with them. I couldn't tell you their schedule or what they had for dinner last night. That doesn't mean I don't think of them or love them less. It simply means I have succeeded at teaching them what it's like to be self sufficient and take life one day at a time. I can also say that they make us very proud. Each in their own way. Continuously. I know they will be just fine and live life to it's fullest, not taking anything for granted.
The younger ones are still in between growing and experiencing life events. We are doing all the same things, although the times have changes and activities are somewhat different. They still have the same expectations and would probably tell you I am down right "mean".
Regardless, life is life and we have to learn to deal with the sudden jolts of uncomfortable situations. Today Chase (and all of us for that matter) is dealing with one of those heartbreaking situations. Magic died today, leaving her two little baby goats, Hocus and Pocus (thanks Ash!) for Grandma and Butch to care for. No matter how many times we have preached "these are projects, don't get attached", it's what we do. They become part of our life for a period of time. Some get sold, some get taken to the slaughter house and others make their way back home. Regardless, each of the animals leave a mark on our children's hearts. Chase is saddened but is doing his best to understand. Unfortunately there was nothing that could be done. Dr. Berkeley made several visits and calls but Magic lost the battle. She was a sweet little goat.....God must have needed a new animal up there, right?
So Magic, here's to you! You will always be remembered and we enjoyed the time you were with us.
Some got it right away
while others were challenged a little more
but bu the time the night was over everyone had a palm cross, ha!
Last night we received the sad news that Emma, has started her Journey with Jesus. This sweet little girl lived very close to us and attended the same school as our children. Shortly after we learned of her illness, we wanted to know more about her. She enjoyed receiving cards so at Christmas time (and other times throughout the year) we would send her cards. She also loved Tinkerbell so our Cub Scout Pack took the 'tip' money they earned at a Basket Bingo and bought her a Tinkerbell lamp. We invited her and her family out out for ice cream with the Pack at which time she was presented this gift. 
I love the palm branch and rock in the window...
This is a Lent tree that Mom's Sunday School class worked on. The nails represent Jesus being nailed to the cross, the pretzels - people praying, the pennies - 30 coins and the purple ribbon "the color of lent". 
So....with alot of excitement I want to say GO WV!
It doesn't seem that long ago that these two were inseparable. Nicole was typically in the motorhome whenever we were heading out of town. Disney was a real treat as they rode around the campground in our 'rented' golf cart. I recall one really funny story when they came home later than normal and came face to face with an armadillo! We still talk about that story....but now these two are both out and about on their own, all grown up!
we spent several hours trying to get all the right shots. It was a lot of fun and allowed me to use some of my newly developed photography skills. Nicole, I hope you enjoy all the pictures!
We're pretty particular with where our kids stay overnight but I guess we didn't see any harm in allowing them to stay at school for 12 hour lock-in. It was their first time but they were definitely excited...So they packed up and we dropped them off.
After that we dug out some of the Florida wine 
(which was very summer like) and had dinner at Red Lobster. 
She had four to pick from and this little guy was her choice. 
Too cute! Of course his brother was very interested in what was going on. 
He was born on March 7th so she will be on a mission to find a 'fitting' name. 
They were immediate friends :) 
He was born on March 2nd so we'll have to see what Google search has to offer for a name.
The interesting thing is that she now does all that stuff (and more) to other people's hair!
Isn't it amazing how beautiful and full this is yet it doesn't exist most of the time?!
here's what the wall looked like today
Here's a beautiful bridge picture
Here's one of the train bridge
and here's today
Here's the fishing pier in our development where the guys go fishing....it was dry not too long ago!
I know it's probably just me but this is a very touching event.
